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GordoFatMe 8th May 2009 10:42 PM

Telling Parents?
 
For much time I was thinking to tell my parents that I want to get fatter. I think it can be easier to get how I want, cause then they can help me to do it, and don't ask to get thinner, as they know I don't want. In the other hand, it can be really bad: They can think i'm crazy, and try to stop me getting fatter. They can get really sad and bad with me, or just agrree... I really don't know what to do.

I know: To answer this question needs to know my parents. But, if you aren't getting fatter as you like, it's being difficult to get there, you would tell your parents?

If I can tell them, I know it can't be just "Mom, I want to get fatter!" It could make my mom really "WHAAAAT??????" :D But I can try with some small words, and then the idea will be appearing, not suddenly, that can be weird and traumatized. What words could I say?? How could I say it?

So, I want your oppinion! What should I do?
Thanks alot! This question in my head is making me crazy!

I'm brazilian... so, be patient with me if you can't understand something. Just ask what I mean in that understanding part.

THANKS AGAIN!

zion_chubby14 9th May 2009 12:59 AM

It really all depends on how you word the question and the reasoning behind it. If they are cool with you getting fatter, then I would rejoice. If not, then secretly get fatter behind their backs.

Oboeplayer91 9th May 2009 01:09 AM

I don't think I'd ever tell my parents that I'm purposefully gaining weight. If I did, then everything would be too wierd

GordoFatMe 9th May 2009 01:25 AM

frecell5671, what do you mean with this sentence?
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Yea, that's what Iam doing: Getting fat hidden. But someday they will notice I'm fatter and will try to do something to me to get thinner. Don't you think I would get fatter easier if I tell them I don't want to get thinner, when they try me to do it?
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Yea, can be weird... but it's something I have hope that can help me to do what I want...

flabbyteenboy 9th May 2009 04:08 AM

Do what you feel is right. If you feel that your parents are not too narrow-minded, then go for it. Its not like being fat is extremely weird. There are millions of people in the world who are fat. In a sence, being fat is normal.

GordoFatMe 9th May 2009 04:48 AM

Well, frecell5671, Brazilians are very mixed... it's japanese, black, asian, european, american, indian, etc. You can't say that brazilians are that colour, cause there's many.
Well, so, do you know alot of brazilians. Do you know any from south? I'm searching for someone that can help me with my gaining, but it needs to live near to me.
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Yea, being fat is normal, but when I say "I want to get fatter" becames something weird for much people... that's the point.

GordoFatMe 9th May 2009 05:31 AM

ok, thanks anyway, frecell5671.

FatMike 9th May 2009 11:27 AM

I don't understand why people always seem to think that telling people about gaining is a GOOD IDEA. >_<

Something with this board, honestly!
However, there is a world of difference between telling them your deliberately eating more, not exercising, etc to get fatter and between just telling them you like the way your body is.

Diagonal 9th May 2009 02:14 PM

Maybe people are stupid.

GordoFatMe 9th May 2009 03:36 PM

no, it isn't this. I guess can be easier to me to get fatter without my mom wanting me in diets to get back my body, if she know I don't want this, she won't waste the time trying to make me thinner.
There are someone who already tell parents about the gaining? I would like to know what heppends...


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